субота, 11 жовтня 2014 р.

actions speak louder than words

Do you consider,  that actions speak louder than words and your actions can easier express you positive or negative emotions or something like that to some extent? Being kind of observant people I am going to tell you my observations to do with gestures. Warned – armed and prevention is better than cure.  Even so you’re not kind of self – controlling person, at any rate practice makes perfect. As I was saying, let's clear people’s gestures up.

As for arms:
some people are habitual to folding their arms. This shows that they are reserved from society or show stubbornness, If you see a person with his hands on his hips, he is either waiting or getting impatient.

♥About your head:
A person with a lowered head shows that he is hiding something(as during lesson, when you know nothing J ). In case the person does so after being complimented or flirted, he probably is shy, ashamed, timid or wants to keep distance from the other person and is thinking to himself. But if he lowers after an explanation, he is unsure of what he has just said. Raised eyebrows along with this sign are a sure-shot sign of disagreement. If a person is wearing glasses and he is constantly pushing them up to his nose along with a slight frown, it indicates that the person is disagreeing with whatever you are saying. A person with lowered brows and squinted eyes is trying to understand or comprehend what is being said around.

♦Eyes can’t lie?

People who are nervous, lying or distracted often look to the sides a lot. Eyes directed towards the floor indicate shyness or fearfulness.

♣The last is about Distance
The closer the people are to you, the warmer their opinions would be regarding you. The farther the person, the less concerned he/she is towards you. Approach  slightly closer to them and see their reaction. If they move away, they do not want the interaction to be any more personal. And if they move closer to you, probably they like you.

One rule at last, don’t jump to conclusion, when you’re not good acquainted with person. You may misinterpret his gestures.

6 коментарів:

  1. It was very interesting that you devided gestures into categories:)
    About distance:) Recently, I've come across an interesting fact that Japenese consider very close distance impolite sign and in such case they feel uneasy. As you know, these people is too reserved and prefer suppressing their feelings to pouring them out. So, we need to be careful and pay great attention to gestures of other cultures

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  2. Do you consider gestures to be more important than words? As I was saying in my post a lot of people can operate their gestures well, you need to very careful.

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  3. Your article was worth reading. To be honest, I noticed some gestures, which I use in my every day life. Moreover, now I get acquentied with their meaning.

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  4. We see a lot of gestures during our day and I think it is useful to identify them in order not to offend person.

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  5. In our hectic Academy it's important to know what people feel and what they are going to say. Situation can change promptly, and the person can hum and in one second he/she talkes about some pet hates and shows his/her own bad habits. You've done great job ruthlessy, I like it.

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